Mother vs wife..which is more important to taiwanese people?

Like I’ve said here, I’m just making sure my aunt and uncles don’t defraud my mom (and by extension, me) when it comes to inheritance, and I’m just here to get my national ID and taking the next plane back to the US; my mom has voluntarily written a notice that she doesn’t even need my financial assistance, but I’m doing what I can because well, she’s still family.

Although my grandma has dementia and is fairly easygoing in terms of personality, if I had $1 USD (some days even $1 TWD) for every single thing my mom did that got under my skin, I’d at the very least be able to afford to move out on my own to the Zhudong District of Hsinchu.