[quote=“Nevernude”][quote=“Shearersheed”]i just read all that thread…took quite some time to read. It is hard to explain I understand what everyone says about the eyes and everything but…we seem to get on great. everything up to now has been fine, I have met her parents, I don’t intend to live with her parents, i understand the family ties in taiwan seem stronger than the uk, i really love her personality, if she went with someone else I would find them and kick seven shades of shite out of them (or attempt it, they may be bigger than me ) but up to now everything has been great, we have loads in common, we have loads to talk about, we always chatting with eachother calling each other everything is great.
I get the impression the next step is being in the same country. She knows I would like to take it slow once I move there, I also understand that to stay with her I don’t have to piss off her family.
I have a very big feeling she is the one. There is only one way anyone kind find out if the person your with is really the one isnt there?
So plan is move to Taipei, my g/f will start off by staying over some nights, we can see how it goes. Then eventually she will move in if everything goes to plan.
I don’t have any time scale for this, I don’t think you can time scale this kind of thing. I think it is the first time mind you, that both my heart, and my head have been screaming at me YES YOU HAVE TO DO THIS!
and you cant not do something everything inside is telling you to do, or you will live with regret.
I wont come there till next year and I am getting excited now, some posts on here scare me but peoples experiances are all different and I have noticed not everyone has went and had a bad experiance a lot of guys and gals have went there and got married and are still living together.
now im blabbering sorry for going on, just reading this site is great help for me before I move to taipei[/quote]
You’re brave. Best of luck![/quote]
thanks for that I dont feel so brave really. I just feel it is something I need to do, to find out if we can make the next step in our relationship as it can really go no further than what we have now. That is also in no way a complaint, its just distance makes it this way, so move near her and be together. Then we will really find out if our relationship can last because when i first move there I wont really know any one apart from her and her friends. I will make friends obviously though. I will need drinking buddies to watch the game too like preferbly fellow Newcastle fans which I know will be in short supply out there, but everywhere I go there is always someone else either from Newcastle or supports Newcastle that I bump into and we always end up having a right good chin wag. ha!