My bf avoids me when he uses line for texting, and I knew it

[yochen]

@Mr_PBH

Isn’t Chinese New Year the traditional break up time?

Are you sure isn’t Christmas?

[Mr_PBH]

In Taiwan? Nah, either before or after CNY was the time to heave ho.

[Kev2023]

Oh No…

He met you the same way and he’s returning to other Apps to find someone better than you… so just becareful.

[Kev2023]

Frankly, speaking do not waste time in getting angry or sad.
Just tell him openly & move out and let him have his freedom. If he gets someone WORSE than you…he will regret what he has done to you…

Some people like having a GF at home and finding extra affairs outside.

It’s your time be BOLD BRAVE & HAPPY TO DUMP HIM

You will be Happy to kick his butts and he’s out of your life.
Go find your own group of good friends - maybe a good friend turns to become a lover or boyfriend that’s the best choice.
I pray and Wish you find a suitable gentleman - Good LUCK

[Mr_PBH]

@Kev2023

He met you the same way and he’s returning to other Apps to find someone better than you…

Nothing like a little shade in the daytime.

[wick3d]

Pretty sure he’s on the lookout for other girls now, curious to hear how it went?

[TT]

A lot can happen in 2 years

[crusher]

@yochen

My bf and I met on a dating app, and we’ve been together for over a year now.

A while ago, I accidentally saw him downloading other dating apps on his phone, and I didn’t ask him anything about it.

Recently, I found that he would deliberately avoid me when he used line to send messages, and he replied like an article…at a time. I could feel that it was different.

One day I saw his smartwatch showed a girl’s name who sent a message to him, but I pretended not to see it! He sort of hide it.

The next week, I told him that I had become insecure because of this thing, I also told him that I saw he was sending messages to others and trying to avoid me. He was a little bit angry and said that he only talking to me and talking about everything to me. (I don’t know how to refute it, because I feel that he would only get angrier and angrier)

I don’t know why I become like that, I think it’s because I love him too much? I like him a lot, so I don’t know what can I do now, because he keeps hiding when he uses line, And if he uses other apps, he just show me like usual, I feel depressed when he does that and think I didn’t know everything, show me he pretends very well, he hides very well.

Get on a dating APP yourself and if he doesnt like it he can leave. You will increase your self esteem and i bet you get more interest in you than he does in him by a factor of 100 or so.

[Taiwan_Luthiers]

@yochen

A while ago, I accidentally saw him downloading other dating apps on his phone, and I didn’t ask him anything about it.

Recently, I found that he would deliberately avoid me when he used line to send messages, and he replied like an article…at a time. I could feel that it was different.

One day I saw his smartwatch showed a girl’s name who sent a message to him, but I pretended not to see it! He sort of hide it.

This is classic mate guarding behavior. Anytime you start thinking you are entitled to control your mate’s behavior, it’s basically toxic. Yes, we all do it, and it’s not something any of us should do.

I suggest not doing that, or acting all possessive because your boyfriend is talking to some other women. I mean are you going to get mad at him anytime he talks with another women? That’s going to drive him away.

The idea is “I’m a piece of shit and I want to make sure my mate isn’t talking with someone else because he might realize I’m a piece of shit and decide to leave”.

I suggest therapy for this, as this is a personal insecurity, not anything to do with him.

If he doesn’t want to be with you, or you him, then have a discussion and ask him. If he doesn’t want to be with you, then end the relationship.

[frictionfusion]

and yet I can’t find a gf at all😂
Ditch the zero.