SE Asian dating a local guy

[tommy525]

OMG as someone said more red flags than in China. YUP good choice to dump him.
he is not into you as a one and only, you are just a convenience for him for now. Hope you find someone who appreciates you for you.

btw, try not to use too many “Tbh idk and now idc anymore.” as we old farts have to kinda think a little to decifer

[tommy525]

lol and you complain about him being intd in other girls

tbh (using your lexicon) you are both too young to commit to each other. Just ride him like he rides you and keep looking for other horses.

[tommy525]

@MalcolmReynolds

@JPMichaels1

Why not? I find the best way to facilitate change is by being a mirror to their actions. Especially after you’ve already confronted them about their behavior. As a bonus to TaipeiXiaoJie it’s probably the easiest way to get him to break up with her so she avoids the all too often stalking response. Let him think he’s breaking up with her.

How about this.

Guy - “You know I really like large breasts. Yours are kind of small.”

@TaipeiXiaojie - “I know exactly how you feel. I like big cocks, but you don’t hear me complaining about yours!”

Or

@TaipeiXiaojie - “I understand. However, big Isn’t all that it’s cracked up to be. Take for example my last boyfriend. His penis was so large that having sex was difficult. I so much more appreciate your small penis because it’s much more comfortable for me.”

This last one is called a back-handed compliment. Looks like you are showing appreciation, but in actuality are criticizing his manhood!

Good to remember it’s not the size of the dog in the fight it’s the size of the Fight in the dog that counts

[tommy525]

Relax this is a Hard comedy club this forum
Keep your posts coming
Can’t wait

Would you mind sharing more of your background
curious cat wants to know

Brit educated Singaporean ?

[TaipeiXiaojie]

On another comment you said hard comedy club, yet you can’t tell this is a joke

[TaipeiXiaojie]

Yes I got the same impression, which is why it will not work.

[jdsmith]

@TaipeiXiaojie

How did we get to this conclusion?

You spelled delusion wrong.

[TaipeiXiaojie]

Lol I’m not that crass. As much as I want to say this sort of stuff I know how much it hurts. He told me one time he likes girls with long legs and big boobs but its okay because I have a cute face? I’m still picking myself up from that and other insensitive comments he’d made.

[MalcolmReynolds]

@TaipeiXiaojie

Lol I’m not that crass. As much as I want to say this sort of stuff I know how much it hurts. He told me one time he likes girls with long legs and big boobs but its okay because I have a cute face? I’m still picking myself up from that and other insensitive comments he’d made.

You are head and shoulders above this guy in intelligence, kindness and especially class.

You’re correct. Don’t bring yourself down to his level.

You can and will do better. Best wishes.

[hansioux]

4, 8, 9, 10 might be a Taiwan thing, the rest are just him.

[tommy525]

He sounds like a poor choice why did you stick with him so long ?

Nothing better on the horizon Any port in a storm kinda thing?

[RickRoll]

Wow, @TaipeiXiaojie !
I have nothing to add except that you deserve someone better.
Thanks for sharing your experience with us. We hear so much from guys perspectives around here that’s refreshing to hear from the ladies too!

[Pinoco]

Having a high libido can be such a drag. We should get some coffee and I’ll share some tips on how I cope with my own extra high libido.

[papertowel]

Ah yes I remember when I was a teenager.

[keoni]

@Pinoco

Having a high libido can be such a drag. We should get some coffee and I’ll share some tips on how I cope with my own extra high libido.

cringe

[Pinoco]

Lulz the word cringe is one of my triggers.

[olm]

Guys, please be respectful and stop hitting on the OP. It looks like this is the last thing she’s wanting right now.