[quote=“Tomas”][quote=“pgdaddy1”][quote=“Tomas”][quote=“pgdaddy1”][quote=“Tomas”][quote=“bismarck”]Split from: Let the Rude White Person on Subway Hysteria Begin
Feel free to discuss the standard of living or anything else in Taiwan vs the rest of Asia here.[/quote]
You may want to split the thread once more to let people discuss pgdaddy1’s thesis that Taiwanese people are a bunch of rude fakers who are only kind to foreigners because they want to look good in front of white people. His other thesis seems to be that any foreigner who thinks Taiwanese are generally kind and decent is delusional. That may be worthy its own thread as well.[/quote]
I am not the only one who has said these things here. Yet you and a couple others have always jumped in tandem onto what into I have said because I dare to criticise the place that you call home and raise a few truths, because I dared to share my own bad experiences of the family court system in Taiwan. If you were that secure in yourself and your own life then you’d take the criticism as it is meant, or answer back in a constructive way. The bubble that you live in is rather fragile, isn’t it ?
Taiwanese people are like any others, some good some bad. Generally they are uncomplicated people. It’s the social norms regarding their attitude towards foreigners and the outside world which I question. If you have a problem with that, then I couldn’t give a flying feck.[/quote]
I simply think you’re wrong. Is that okay, or does disagreeing with you make me insecure and someone who lives inside a fragile bubble? For such a laid-back dude, you sure enjoy going for the personal attack when people disagree with you, don’t you?
Take a deep breath and re-read my post. I’m simply suggesting that the mods let posters explore your theses about Taiwanese people and the delusional foreigners who might like them, theses which you have clearly stated in this and other threads. If you don’t believe that you have made these kinds of statements, then may I suggest that you clarify your arguments rather than getting so pissed off? If you do believe these things, perhaps you could explain why bothers you so much when people point out what you’ve written?
For the record, I have no problem with someone who criticizes Taiwan. Your opinion is your right. Might others be allowed to discuss it without you getting upset?[/quote]
Yes, very clever. Well at least you’ve had the balls this time to actually state your views rather than make an underhand comment about splitting off a thread etc.
Like I said, I am not the only one who has expressed these views (please don’t make me go back and quote what others have said) and certainly not the first, so I don’t think I can take out a patent on the “thesis”. I am not sure why you think I have a problem with other people expressing their views, that would be kind of hypocritical wouldn’t it ? The problem I have is where people get personal and make snarky or underhand comments. Which you have done with me on at least one occasion.
That’s a sign of insecurity to me. If I am wrong in your case, then I apologise.
This forum is full of educated and intelligent people discussing important issues, there’s no need for us to stoop so low as to get personal is there ?
BTW, I don’t think I ever claimed that any foreigner who believes Taiwanese are generally kind and decent is delusional. If I did then I also apologise, because I generally agree with that sentiment. I do hold, however that in order to survive in a place such as Taiwan long-term, you really have to block out a lot of the uncomfortable realities.[/quote]
I’m sorry, but the irony is just too rich here. You have trouble with people who make personal comments, yet at this point, you’ve called me insecure, lacking in balls, someone who lives in a fragile bubble, etc.? Have I called you any names, or have I just focused on your arguments? BTW, my initial suggestion that we split a few of your assertions into other threads was sincere. I think they’re worthy of discussion, and would be interesting.
Since you keep going back to personal stuff, I’ll address a few of your attacks here.
I don’t think I’m insecure, but someone calling me insecure a few times is always helpful because it gives me the opportunity to think about how my behavior is perceived by others. So you’ve helped me out in a way. If your definition of insecure is that I can’t accept an opposing view, I’m probably only slightly insecure. I’m pretty open to negative feedback and opposing views, most of the time.
I’m not sure if I live in a bubble. I travel around places like China, India, Australia, Singapore (can’t really travel around Singapore, but you get the idea), Hong Kong, England, and the US quite a bit for work, I’m over 40, and I speak and read fluent Chinese (I use it to do my work), so I think I may have had the opportunity to see a few things here and there that would help me remain bubble-less. I think Australia is far more beautiful than Taiwan as a place to live, and I like Singapore a lot, for what it’s worth.
As for lacking minerals (that’s the correct vernacular in the UK, right?), I’m really not sure. I’m not afraid of taking risks, generally, and I’ve been in my share of physical and verbal fights where I haven’t backed down, but I suppose there’s always room for improvement. If your definition of someone lacking balls is making underhanded comments, I’ve made a few of those in my life, so I suppose under that definition I am lacking in balls. I’ll try and work on it.
Don’t worry about quoting others. I agree that you aren’t the first to post some of those things about Taiwan and Taiwanese people.[/quote]
OK fair enough. It really did seem like an underhand comment to me though, but if you say it wasn’t then I believe you. I guess it was because that you had already made one before that I assumed … I certainly would not have got personal with you if I hadn’t felt that you were getting personal with me.
At least you accept that these “theses” cannot be attributed to me. I expect that someone first expressed the same views 50+ years back. I’m just over 40 too, have lived in a handful of countries and travelled 30+ countries, so I think I have a good point of reference. Hats off to you for being able to read and write Chinese though, that’s a feat. Whether it helps you understand Taiwanese culture and people any more, I am not sure.