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Originally posted by NFI:
I am also curious, exactly how many of these Asian forums are you are a part of? Are you making expert comments about Tokyo, KL, HK, HCMC? At least Wolf’s comments about Vietnam are from experience (I agree with you, Vietnam’s beaches are not that great, but still better than any I’ve seen here).
What other forums I participate in is really insignificant to you. My family/extended family are from China and Taiwan, and these are the countries I know the best.
Wanna read a boring story? If not, skip.
You and Jolie remind me of this Singaporean expat in NYC whom I’ve had the misfortune of meeting last year through work associates. He had lived in NYC for several years, and he absolutely HATED it. Everything he said of NYC was completely negative; not one positive comment whatsoever. He said it was dirty. He said it was noisy. He said the people were rude and constantly bumped into him without apologizing. He said the subway sucked because it was filthy and you couldn’t use your cell phones underground, unlike “great” Singapore where you can, and that the Singaporean subway system is the only system in the whole wide world that has cell phone reception. (Wooow zowee!!) He said American technology stank and that Motorola made horrible products. He went on and on about just how fab Singapore was while continuously panning NYC. On top of that, he used his criticisms of NYC to bitch about America as a whole and made completely swiping generalizations (the way you and Jolie do with Taiwan: “no beauty, no legacy, no culture, no creativity, bathroom tile-covered mountains!!”), saying Americans were rude and lacked morals and the country was boring, even tho he never even lived outside of NYC. And when, in the middle of a conversation about Singapore, I mentioned that the country slipped into a recession last year, he totally flipped out and denied it, then walked away pissed!! Totally true story. Needless to say he didn’t have many friends there, and those that were, well, were other Singaporeans! Oh and get this, the funny part: He really liked Taiwan!! Honest!! Apparently, he’s very Asian ethnocentric. A side note: I wouldn’t be surprised at all if he’s one of those jerks who thinks America got what it deserved with 9/11.
So despite the fact that some of what he said of NYC was true, that city just offers so much more than someone like him with his intolerable, nasty, pompous attitude can ever see. I didn’t bother to point out all the positive aspects of NY. It would’ve been a complete waste of time cuz the guy was so blinded by his closed-mindedness and arrogance. Sound familiar, hmm? Anyway, I believe every country offers something that’s positive and of value (I know it sounds corny, but whatever); hell, even war-torn Afghanistan. I believe it cuz that’s just the kind of person I am. So it really doesn’t matter that I haven’t gone to Taiwan - yet. I know I will have a blast when I get there this year DESPITE the pollution and bad architecture, etc., etc., etc. And if I was living there and was extremely unhappy, I’d be on a plane ASAP outta there rather than stick around and make excuses for staying while bitching and moaning in some forum and writing negative posts to make others feel miserable as well. But that’s me. And you ask why people here get defensive? Because you make them feel bad!! And who the f**k wants to feel bad? And despite you and Jolie’s best efforts to convince people who are there to leave and those who want to come to stay away…well, I’m still coming, chump!! (I sure like these smilies!!!)