Taiwanese-American guy dating a local TW girl

[SunWuKong]

@Caspian

Before I moved around the world to be with a woman I had never met, my girlfriend (now wife) and I had done the following:

• We read over a dozen books together and discussed them
• We read another dozen premarital counseling books together and wrote our answers to all the personal questions about lifestyle preferences (our Google doc totaled 100+ pages)
• We had several hour-long Skype sessions with each other’s parents

Everyone should put that much work into a long-distance relationship. It’s the lazy who suffer.