Interesting chat about this in Taiwan
Seems some man can get many women, but also many have a hard time get even one so have use passport power
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My chinese isn’t good enough to even begin following the topic. 
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So you never paid attention to the 100,000s of Vietnamese spouses here…
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Isnt that the same for women too? without needing any passport power
I know…, many (not all, some for love) come cause the passport the man has. For women, (read the comments) they complain how low class (or better word loser) that many (not all) need use the passport they have get a women.
I prefer finding someone with a different passport so my kids have more passports and more freedom in life. Preferably some passport that opens up as many regions/countries as possible, such as an EU passport, Macau, etc. Taiwan passport has benefits that it opens up the whole greater china area for kids. It’s a better synergy and outcome from a partnership.
It’s like asking, if you had a choice everything else equal, would you prefer an attractive or unattractive partner? What about a rich or poor partner? Or one that opens up more possibilities for your kids?
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For women, it’s mostly the men have become lower class so they reject a relationship with un civil man, while man seems care a lot on youth and outlook,
Women dont care about looks and outlook of a man?
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True. You can find a woman that you will 10/10 fall in love with in any country. May as well go abroad so that when you eventually have kids with that person, the kids will have an extra passport, and possibly an extra language too.
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Taiwanese guys still have it relatively easy. They gotta put in relatively less work for more gains and most still resign themselves to low level distractions.
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It seems, those with Passport Bros in many cases do not (they care about the passport). And for most women, yes looks matter but not the only thing. It seems some (or many) men care about looks, that the lady thoughts do not matter
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I think we need a new @jimbob132 dating thread, we miss your romantic antics!
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Sorry, you’ve lost me here. I keep trying to determine the meaning of this sentence, but every time I run it through the old noggin, it fails to compile …er parse. Would you mind rephrasing?
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I am failing to understand the logic here
U agree both men and women care about looks but when men care about looks, women thoughts don’t matter?
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A lot of men would prefer a beautiful woman, without 2 thoughts to rub together. A lot of women would prefer a rich man without 2 thoughts to rub together. A lot of women expect to improve their socio economic situation through marriage…
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The only problem with this i always find is that women and men both earn now. We dont live in times where men only had jobs. All the women in my company are senior managers earning way higher than most and yet the criteria is that its the men who must have a home, a car and money to take her to expensive trips abroad.
And women also care about men’s appearance. I have been rejected many times because women said i aint tall enough. I agree men care about women’s look also for example her weight but weight is something u can control while how tall are you is not something u can change.
I often gets a lot of hate for saying all that but i dont believe things are ever in favor of men. Their checklist for the things needed to be desirable is always bigger than women’s.
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They certainly are, sometimes for some men
But yeah, for most of us most of the time, male privilege isn’t really relevant
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Taiwan is harder in the dating scene than many other countries for both Asians and western men believe it or not. Women in Taiwan can be quite demanding in what they want I have seen it a lot, many aren’t even dating after a certain age I reckon. I’m not making a judgement on it it’s just the way I see it. Could be wrong 
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It is true. Dating in Taiwan is really hard. It’s more like a business transaction where u must have 100% of everything a girl wants otherwise u r out.
Making adjustments or “settling down” is seen as a red flag nowadays
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It really must have changed since the early 2000s. Used to be the easiest place in the world to get laid in.
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