[quote=“Namahottie”][quote=“Samwy”]cheating is unforgivable
it doesn’t mean you can’t have flings with her though
it’d just make the flings more exciting since you know you’d be banging a slutty piece of scum hehe[/quote]
I think you just messed up your chances in meeting a woman here [/quote]
Before I even got to this post I had thought that…
[quote=“Mianbao”][quote=“housecat”]I don’t think my husband’s “indescression” ment anything to him. I have no problem understanding that it didn’t. It means a lot to me, however.
I do love my husband, but I do respect him a lot less. And it is much harder to love someone you have trouble respecting.
Is this too personal to share here? I’m comfortable and hope that other’s are, too. Sorry to those who aren’t. And I’m not trying to hijack the thread with my problems.
It’s just that this topic is something that I’ve learned a lot about in a difficult way. Perhaps, after all, and there’s been quite a bit, I was still somewhat nieve.
But it’s just not so simple as end of faithfulness/end of trust = end of relationship. That’s what I was trying to get at.[/quote]
Have you thought about, or approached the idea of marital counselling?[/quote]
yes.