Dear Agony Aunt…ha ha
I would appreciate a bitta guidance on this one. I should really know the answers - they’re staring me in the face, but I’ve lost my way a little here.
Have been interested in a local girl at work for about four months now, as has she been interested in me. She has a local boyfriend, they’ve been together a year, known each other for nine.
However she has sent all sorts of signals my way, indicating she fancies me - direct comments, shy smiles and giggles, little gifts. Pretty much everyone at work has said at one point or another that she likes me.
For the last couple of months we’ve texted each other up to 20 times in an evening, after we’ve knocked off work, chatting about this and that.
In the last month we’ve gone on a half-dozen dates and she invited me to her family’s new year eve dinner, met the parents etc etc.
We told another we like each other quite a lot, but not sure what to do next, as she has a bf.
Also, at work, she pretty much ignores me.
Am I being played for a fool. Best to walk away now? I think she’s either a great player or a confused woman. She keeps on harping on about how decisions should be made from the heart and not the head…