Better than still doing it as an adult 
@TT
Better than dating someone in middle school, OK. Thatâs about the only thing I understand, but I agree entirely that adults shouldnât do that!
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We used to use paper notes that you hide in the girl you likes locker. You write âwill you go out with me, check yes or noâ and slip it in before 5th period
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when you get older, you find ways to slip it in more cringily 
*edit: but never with middle schoolers, only consenting adults!
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I donât think I could ever do this thing you Americans cutely refer to as âdatingâ, in Taiwan.
Sitting at a table eating a meal while she plays with her phone.
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The Taiwanese girl Iâve been dating doesnât play on her phone at all around me, sheâs pretty cool (or, hiding something). But yeah, Iâve definitely seen lots of couples on the phones all the time.
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Deca-Durabolin?
Makes the joints feel good on TRT.
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Asian girls that pretend to like ugly white men for money lol. Theyâre probably on their phone telling their friends how much theyâll ask him for.
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I like how to chat has shifted to anabolic steroids. 
How old are you folks talking about deca? good lord, you shouldnât be doing deca if you are not some competitive bodybuilder.
I donât find the Taiwanese women too stuck up on looks in my observation. Some do of course but Iâve seen a lot of âsubstandardâ guys with nice looking women and I find that isnât a deal breaker (for us fugly looking guys fortunately)
Plus a large selection of women that are considered good looking by foreigners but not considered beautiful by Taiwanese guys creating that stereotype that foreigners date ugly women. Hey I mean if they arenât interested , their loss 
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Deal breaker. Next!
Guy
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I have little in common with my Indonesian wife but we are in our 9th year of marriage
We donât share friends we donât like the same movies usually
We dont like the same music mostly
We largely donât like the same foods
We largely donât have the same hobbies or activities or interests
We have completely different personalities
We share a big age gap
Sheâs thin and Iâm phat
Sheâs cute and Iâm not
She likes to do lots of things and go everywhere I like to do nothing
The list is long of uncommonalities
The girlfriends Iâve had where we shared a lot in common we are not together
Go figure
Ps in case you are thinking well we are together for sex
That would be the punch line We are sexually incompatible
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So this is basically to make sure theyâve entered puberty but not too far in yet? 
My Taiwanese girlfriend is a little rotund and so am I now living in U.K. for 8 months on meat, potatoes, pasta huge pile of rice with curry.
I need to return to lose weight!
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Even the air in the western world
Makes one fat
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So whatâs the secret of a sexually incompatible marriage with nothing in common? As in why stay together?
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Good question
Havenât figured it out in 9 years
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Ok you want the long answer I take it
Ok lessee
Marriage is a state of being much like life It ainât perfect by a long shot but would you rather be out of it?
You want a Ferrari but you drive an Acura You take what you can get and work with it
The Acura takes you places even if it canât take you where a Ferrari can or you think a Ferrari can
Itâs all give and take , mostly give
You take what you can but you have to give it all
You are not her Ferrari either she has her druthers too
Somehow with all the imperfections on both sides you manage to work with each other and make each other mostly happy
Mostly happy most of the times with a little extra satisfaction sometimes is pretty much all you can hope for with somebody who is not you
If you got someone who you were extremely happy with and passionately in love with all the time
Who you would do anything for and is the apple of your eye at all times
Who you thought of when your eyes open and before you shut your eyes to sleep And every moment in between
You will lose her
Because either
1 she was tired of playing the perfect woman for you and you never really knew her because the real her is someone else
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She didnât think of you the way you thought of her
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She tired of you because she won your heart and soul already
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Fate is jealous of your love and takes her away from you because he can
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Like most relationship that work Iâd wager- itâs not about the things you like or what youâre like, but how you feel and treat each other (and how you feel about yourself) - you actually like each other, enjoy each otherâs company, are secure, have similar goals, and respect each other. For me, someone that doesnât necessarily like the same things as me is a better fit - you introduce each other to different viewpoints and interests, and when you go off and do your own thing that the other isnât interested in, you give the relationship a little breathing room.
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the truth is, its hard to find things in common + physical attraction regardless of where you are. if it was easy we wouldnt have sitcoms like âhow i met your motherâ running for 8 years.
jia you, keep trying, worst case you wasted an evening on a boring dudeâŚ
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