Yup I don’t do western girls because their operating manual is different
I don’t know how you guys read them
Maybe everything is discussed and agreement signed and sealed
Before anything happens or you let them lead ?
No idea
I haven’t gone so far
As to be rejected by Taiwanese girls
Yet because I read them carefully
Western ladies may be like reading tea
leaves to me
Yea but if you don’t take a chance and at least get close to her and make some moves you may as well be friends and let her lead if ever
In my experience Taiwanese girls want you to lead the way
Most of them are not forward enough to grab you by the dong and ….
Not on the first date anyway
Also a great
Deal of preselection is very helpful
Surely you can read if a girl is into you and is receptive to you even before you ask them out
Tommy preselects for the chance of greatest success
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I never understood these blanket statements and generalizations. I have had very different experiences in this regards, from the very conservative girls to the very direct and natural. I guess you have to dial in a bit, or find someone in the same brainwave than you.
Also on average women aren’t as sexual and direct as men. You knew that, right?
Speak for your sample 
No men has said no to me yet. Not that I have asked any, but hey, that’s something I can’t say about women
Yup I’ve been seduced by Taiwanese women as much as I’ve been seducing
I’m in clear decline, being declined haha
Hehe very good answer.
I was mostly joking of course. people regardless of gender are different, and looks can deceive. Big time.
I guess in Taiwan there is strong pressure from society on women to act like “good girl” pure types. So this thing @tommy525 mentioned might be found more often, like “wanting not to be seen as a bad girl”
That’s why I said “on average”. I started my post with “I don’t understand these blanket statements”.
IDK, I found many girls here who would think of sex in a more natural way, without showing any guilt thoughts or anything like that. But OTOH I have met (or talked to) many others who said “I’m not that type of girl”. What type, you idiot? the one who doesn’t pretend not to want something she does? Meh…
Taiwan girls play hard to get most of times unless ofcourse you are already their type . If you are then they will throw themselves onto you and u can see it clearly. If you arent then you can see it too that she is bored as heck. The idea of “lets get to know the other person” isnt that prevailant here but all girls would use this line before going on date. In truth they just wanna pick the “ideal man” , the image they already have in their mind.
Preselection works
One summer day young 30 Tommy facing a weekend alone got a call from a young lady he had previously gone on a platonic date with to meet up in an hour to go to the beach
Accepted the invite but then the next girl called who
Tommy had met prior once as well but definitely more sexual dancing around
tomster calls back the first girl and cancels the date
Tomster scored
By the way Tomster ends up marrying that girl and that was one hell of a ride with the emphasis on hell
And wonders what would have happened if he didn’t cancel the first girl ??!!
I found this, in public shy, in private not shy (if she likes). A lot of times its also not let parents know and but friends are ok (I had the girl’s friends cover for her saying she there overnight or other oddball things)
Some good information here about the Taiwanese courtship process, which I’m sure also applies to Chinese women. Although I was already rejected to move beyond “hanging out” with this girl, it wasn’t an overt rejection (“Not really looking for a boyfriend!”, “So happy to finally have a British friend!”, etc.) and we agreed to meet up again this coming Saturday for me to continue helping with her essay. She said she’s busy in the evening, which could suggest she’s sending me a message that she doesn’t want me to take her on a date, but she could just as easily be telling the truth. So, based on what I’ve read on this thread, I’m going to make a push to do something more date-ish next time. Although I agree with the advice some here gave about physical contact (sitting close, brushing her hand, putting my hand on her shoulder when I get up to use the bathroom, etc.), I don’t think an afternoon library session is the right environment so I’ll leave that out!
What? Getting busy in the stacks is totally hot! 
“helping with essay” might be more fruitfully done at your place.
Also, could well be daytime activity is better than nights, no inquisitive parents asking what she is up to.
I wouldn’t have high hopes for this one beyond what she has said…‘Not looking for a boyfriend’.
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