Ew, none of the above.
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I said girls, not dogs.
My point being, the power of social proof is much more seductive than physical attraction.
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It looks like the guys will go for him more ?
He had a better suit in the first photo thoughā¦looked more suave.
Damn I realised thereās this girl Iāve known for 4 years and I actually have no idea why the though never passed my mind before now but sheās great, like I reckon sheād be one of if not the ideal match for me
I only talked to her a few times she was nice enough to me as far as I can tell in the past, now I tried to talk to her sheās slow to reply serves me right
But nah whatās the point really. I realise how shit I am. Nah I always knew that. Iāve always had no respect for myself. Maybe thatās part of my problem. Hard to do anything when you donāt respect yourself.
But nah I realise on the path Iāve been past 4 years or so just spiralling down.
Honestly if I got my shit together things would be okay. Iāve always felt extremely insecure about my appearance but in the end looks arenāt be all and end all, especially for guys. Honestly I donāt look handsome but I donāt look ugly. If I got my shit together though Iād have a pretty good chance with girls. Iām not young anymore but Iām not old yetā¦ I still have a chance
I need to get over all my problems. all my life I never thought I even had the potential to change I just imagined me as being innately shy and unable to talk. Until recently. I donāt know, I read the Jordan Peterson book and I canāt remember what is was it said in it but I realised it was possible for me to change. I fell into a deep depression after that but now I am semi okay hopefully I can keep going
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Christ on a cracker, man. Just go out and get laid already. Jeez Louise.
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He thinks itās about his appearance, when itās obviously about his approach (specifically his obsessive overthinking).
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Hey, Iām sure there are women out there who actually like guys who obsessively overthinkā¦but you still have to put yourself out there. 
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Nah like since I was like 4 years old or something Iāve been super self conscious. Never felt comfortable in my own skin. A psychologist would say itās body dismorphic disorder.
My approach is non existant
yeah nah actually my social life is non existant
kinda always been that way but when i was in uni it gradually got better but when i finished uni it disappeared, partly because i parted ways with the friends I had in uni and partly because oh fuck i forget
but anyway I realise I am trash as a human being and need to fix myself somehow to get friends and stuff the question is how
You just need to realize that everybody is flawed and weāre all trying to work our way through this fucked up world. You have more in common with other people than you think. The more you put yourself out there, the more youāll realize this. Now go out there and find a flawed member of the opposite sex and get laid already.
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Ah yeah thatās certainly true we all have our problems although I think the best in a serious relationship both kinda know not to be shit and care about it other not just themselves and something like that um I canāt articulate what I mean right now but something like that
but anyway I donāt wanna get laid just for the sake of it nah gotta wait until marriage yeah
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OK, thatās a great start, but you should be whispering it in some chickās ear in a grungy nightclub instead of posting it here (well, except for the part about āgotta wait till marriageāā¦thatāll probably just scare her away).
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Why? I only belive in sex before and after marriage. Maybe some during marriage, if you are very lucky.
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Get a life before you get a wife or gf
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Sex is real before marriage
After itās hard to find the time or inclination
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It is a gift from god or something like that
but yeah nah think itās best with someone you truly care about and vice versa and if u think that about each other more the better
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Well ya aināt gonna get it after either
I aināt gonna get if before either 
A coupla wise men once said
Iāf you canāt fuck your self your canāt fuck others either. ā¦ something like that
What they really mean is you donāt have to use rubbers with the wife I think