[quote=“rooftop”]So what do you do when one half of the relationship earns 5~7 times what the other half does?
Serious question.
On most average Taiwanese salaries our boyfriends/girlfriends could never accompany their foreign partners to even a fraction of the events/places we like to go.
Sorry, I’m not into night markets and window shopping…
Twonavels, sorry to hear that happened to you. Pretty sketchy.[/quote]
Besides the fact that I obviously have the wrong job since I don’t make anywhere near 5~7 times what my lowest paid full-time employed bf made; there are better places than night markets to shop which are less expensive than SOGO and nice but less expensive places to eat than Western restaurants. Walks in the parks are free, entrance fees to museums, etc. are reasonable. Trips by train or bus are relatively inexpensive and there are plenty of reasonably priced accommodations throughout Taiwan for those weekend getaways.
I don’t go to concerts so I don’t know about those. Bars and clubs, once you get past the entrance fee, are really up to you. My bf doesn’t drink so his tab isn’t the problem when we go out clubbing .
Naturally I pay for both of us sometimes but I make sure we go to some places where he can pay to avoid any loss of face or resentment from him.
The first several false starts I had in relationships in Taiwan ended when they expected me to pay for everything or they wanted to move in within a week of meeting.