There are so many average joes who still have sex and who, more importantly, end up with someone to love who also loves them!
It might not necessarily be easy, but I just don’t think it’s that bad, as long as you are putting yourself out there, as you do. It’s about your effort, and it’s also a numbers game.
Plus, if it’s just about the sex, and about satisfying that need, you can always pay for sex. It’s the long term companionship thing that’s really tough to find. That’s true for everyone, no matter how hot you might be. Lots of luck involved.
Am I banging Tom Hardy every day, twice a day? No, but I get by all right.
You can’t be like, oh god I gotta have sex, I gotta have it real bad! but then say no, it can’t be with this girl who isn’t pretty enough, and it can’t be with a prostitute. At that point, aren’t you just barring yourself from sex?
What? Why not? It’s just sex!
These two things are entirely unrelated in my mind, but nice try. Different definitions of sexpats, etc.
Men are more visual. We really really care about looks. It’s far easier for a woman to have sex than a man, do you disagree? It’s also far easier for a woman to find sexual partners perhaps out of their league than man.
You got a bunch of guys who have been around. Most married or in serious relationships telling you what it’s like. But no, you don’t want to understand from a perspective of a guy. If it’s easy for a girl to get laid it must be easy for guys right? No.
That shouldn’t be a problem. There are some very pretty sex workers out there.
I get that it’s not as easy for a guy to have sex with random partners if they wish. But it’s also not as impossible as you’re making it out to be. You make it sound like they just stand in their own way, and of course you can’t get anywhere with that attitude.
Not really. High quality ones are usually out of the price range for the average joe. And it’s not the same, the achievement of sex is something that can impact a guys self worth. A guy who can’t get laid on his own isn’t going to feel that good even if he’s banging grade A escorts all the time.
Not impossible. But you’re making it sound like it’s as easy as “hey just get some game and don’t be so shy and awkward”
Men aren’t in the habit of shaming other men for trying to get laid. We understand for the vast majority of guys, it’s something that’s hard.
I can’t pity a guy who will come here and take advantage of a local girl’s naïveté to pump and dump. He’s still getting some, after all, regardless of how unscrupulous the means. So what’s there to pity? I can only look down on him for having to manipulate people in order to get some.
I don’t think they’re many. And if they think it’s going to be easy, they’re in for a reality check. I had one classmate who was like that when we did a summer abroad in China and Taiwan. He told me on the first day he was so excited because you know, asian girls are very submissive. (Ask the married men here about how submissive their Taiwanese wives are lol. They probably get beat and yelled at daily) He even brought a box of condoms. Got zero girls as always tagged along with me to the club with some of the other more successful guys campaign and champagning. I ended up taking him to a brothel because I felt bad lol.
And a lot of guys that come here, no offense to anyone here as if doesn’t apply to you it doesn’t apply to you, don’t really end up with very attractive girls.
And please, I’ve never tricked and pumped and dumped. Girls aren’t that naive and stupid. They are perfectly aware of what I wanted.
you are making them sound like rapists, which has more to do with your warped view of white guys than them. the girls are far from innocent actually. plenty of them want to date a foreigner for the status they think they get from it. i know of one girl who was paying for her french “model”(didn’t look like a model to me) bfs rent. like who pays a guys meals let alone his rent in this culture?
I agree! That’s what I said in the beginning — just that there are some around.
Never said you did. But there are people who do, and there are girls who fall for the lies. Some go into it willingly, some falsely believe it’s leading to a relationship and end up getting hurt. Live and learn.
its more than ‘some’ girls who are not being ‘manipulated’ as you put it. don’t be naive/ignorant. well your comments made it seem like it totally was about race but i don’t want to bring that up again as you swore at me last time.
I’m going to say this is a tiny percentage of the sex going on. Of the women that complain about this, they’re almost always the ones who always get “tricked” and complain about how horrible guys are. They should take in some responsibility as They’re the ones always picking these guys and I believe ignoring the reality.
Then you aren’t actually reading them and you’re just assuming I’m talking about white visitors only.
I am perfectly aware of this. They all fall under the category of “enabler.” But there are definitely still some with purer intentions who end up fooled.
i am reading. you said white guys who can’t get laid are losers and sexpats but you feel sympathy for taiwanese who are in the exact same boat and can’t get laid. you couldn’t make it any clearer.
you also said its ok to pay for sex, but trying to get laid without charm is an incredibly creepy offence. if you have charm, game and good looks its A ok though.
and then you said those guys are manipulating innocent women. while the few women that go along with it are enablers. i’m sorry but your views are warped and your logic is all over the place. so i’m just going to dip out of this one.
