Before I add anything, jd, let me apologise for having been very unclear in my last rant/post which was directed at you, and off topic at that. I just re-read my last post, and I made it sound like your opinions in this debates are driven by your dislike for me. It’s regrettable because it’s not what I was trying to say. I worded things wrong, and I made it sound as if you have a hidden agenda in terms of your position in this debate. I don’t think that’s the case. I think that as far as you position in the debate is concerned, you are consistent, and honest.
I don’t agree with your position, and I think you need to educate yourself in order to understand better what works, and what doesn’t work. If Sean has helped you with better understanding things such as CNR, as you mentioned, then that’s great.
The point I failed to make altogether in my earlier post is not in regards to your opinions on the topic itself. The point is in regards to your comments about me being antagonistic and such. I take great offense to that because as far as I am concerned, I have done nothing but expressing my opinion in this debate without any intentions to demean anyone. Surely, 20 pages of discussions within a couple days shows that the subject is a sensible one to many, including myself. So naturally, and given the controversial nature of this debate, I think that you will read strong opinions that oppose to yours. You will read strong opinions that oppose to other posters opinions, too.
I have gotten into the worse flame war with you in the mods forum recently. The worse I’ve ever gotten into with anyone. A part of it is because the mod forum is not moderated… Near the end of the said flame war, you basically admitted that a big reason why things got so heated up is because you simply do not like me. Like I said, I don’t think that your opinions in this thread are driven by this dislike you have for me. I do however think that if things got heated between you and I in the past, and that you admit that a big reason for that was because you dislike me, I can’t see that pattern not replicating itself. That’s why I think that your claims that I am antagonistic, and countless other comments re; my posting style, my demeaning/alienating other posters, etc are, however, driven by the same motivations that drove you to heat things up in the past, and many, many times, since then.
You keep saying these things, but when I ask you to provide quotes to back up your allegations, you have nothing. I’ve written many long posts in this debate, and I would assume that you would have a lot to work with to back up what you say; to put your money where your mouth is, but you provided one quote, and you misquoted me at that.
On the other hand, I provided you with some things that have been said by someone else to show your inconsistency in that regard. For example, I have not called anyone idiots for having different opinions than mine. The point is, when someone else says these things, it flies smoothly with you, but when I say it, you make it stand out like a sore thumb. That’s not right. I have not said anything to antagonize, or alienate anyone. I simply express strong opinions in a very controversial subject.
Again, I wrote a lot in this debate, and if you can not back your claims with quoting the very statements which you find are alienating other posters or which you find antagonistic, I don’t think it’s fair that you make these claims. I for one find it antagonistic of you. I, OTOH, have been told that I lack logic, that I am antagonistic, alienating and demonizing other posters. Can you see the irony here?
[quote=“jdsmith”] You have taken up this cause and because you personally feel it is noble you seem to expect all others to think so too?[/quote]Quote please. [quote] Caring for animals? I have absolutely no problem with that. Educating people about proper pet care? Great. Keep up the good work. But when it comes to having a discussion about how to go about solving social problems with strays, we disagree.[/quote]Yes, obviously, but that doesn’t mean I do not respect your opinion, nor that I am alienating you, demonizing you, or being antagonistic. [quote] I think I made that point in the other thread. I do not believe people are responsible for “lesser” animals because we can think logically. [/quote]That’s fine. It’s your opinion, and you are fully entitled to it. [quote]I am not the only one in that thread who disagrees with you,[/quote]Fair enough, but others disagree with you, too. So what’s your point? How does that make me antagonistic? [quote]I am not the only person who says that you cry foul everytime someone criticizes your POV.[/quote]I may have missed a post, but I’ve only read this from you in this debate. Quotes please. If you are referring to other threads and other discussions in the past, then it’s irrelevant, and against the rules. Besides, it has a red herring effect, either intentional or not.
[quote]I am doing my best to remain emotionally unattached to this thread and the other and to present my thoughts as clearly as possible. I am also open to suggestions on how to better perceive this problem,[/quote]Fair enough, as I said my intention was not to comments on your posts, but only on your demeaning comments toward me. [quote]Simply put, I don’t think you want to educate people here, but rather tell them how “selfish” they are.[/quote] Of course not, because you don’t like me, you admitted to it, and you even admitted that it was a major factor as to why we butt heads. You don’t have to like me, I don’t care at all. Well, I’d prefer if you did not dislike me, but I can’t help it so I’m not going to lose sleep over it. The point is, it’s unfair to make claims such as the above without backing it up somehow. Again, quotes please.
[quote]You say you don’t demean people. OK, that’s your opinion. How about alienate them? Is that a better term?[/quote]No it’s not a better term, unless you can quote the part where I do that, and make a solid argument to back up this claim. It’s not fair. Quotes please.
[quote] You do a good thing, no doubt about it. Because I and others do not do what you do to the extent you do though, is not reason to look down at us. [/quote]The worse, the very worse I have said in this debate, jd, is that I find it selfish to let dogs die of starvation, and I sustain my opinion. That is not looking down at you, it’s my opinion in a very controversial topic. Of course in controversy such as this some opinions will not sound glorifying to your person. It’s bloody controversy. Again, it’s not fair, and if I did say anything worse than “it’s selfish” then show us some quotes, please.
[quote]We all don’t judge and value our lives in the same manner. To each their own. You appear to judge yourself by the work you do with animals. I honestly don’t mind that you judge yourself in this way (if you do, I suspect you do, if not, well, let me know and I won’t say it again); however, you can’t judge me the same way.[/quote]I haven’t really thought about all that, jd. I was thinking about the poor dogs who will starve if we follow your logic, but you seem to think this is casting an unduly judgment over you. Beats me. Quotes please. [quote]And it certainly would predjudice any discussion we would have. I don’t judge you the way I judge myself, as a great dancer, because that would be unfair to you.[/quote] And I don’t judge you either. Take my word for it, or leave it. Better yet, provide quotes where I did judge you. I can easily provide worse things other people said in this thread, including some of the things you wrote to my attention.
[quote]So there we are. [/quote]Yes, there we are. I asked you for quotes to back up all your claims, but frankly, it doesn’t matter to me. I just say that to show that you have not supported any of your allegations. None.
I post on Forumosa for fun. I don’t have a hidden agenda either, nor do I think that expressing my opinions on a bulletin board will change the faith of the stray dogs in Taiwan. It’s all just for fun, and yes, sometimes the topic heats up a little, but there is no need to make all these claims, jd. And I do suspect that you do that for the same reasons that you admitted having antagonized me not that long ago. That’s what’s not fair, because I don’t find it quite as fun when you do that. Of course you’ll say that it’s not true, and that your claims have nothing to do with the fact that you dislike me, and you’ll most likely make more similar claims. Point is, that’s what you admitted to having done in a not so distant past, and I don’t think you’ve had a change of heart since then.
Cheers!