Let me tell you a little secret you may not have uncovered on your own. Women have the memory of two perhaps three elephants ! Any slight that i project upon her now , and when she marries me, as is planned, I am sure to have that come back on me at some later stage in some unpleasant way.
DO not mistreat them or have them perceive you doing so. They will come back to BITE YOU HARD.
They are “evil” little creatures but we love em.
(after all remember Eve? God made Eve for Man. Thank you God. Yes Thank you God, in spite of Eve getting us all in a whole heapa major shit)
p.s. iv discovered you CAN buy love. You just didnt realize it yet that money matters, it very much matters. No money no honey is a trueism.
And if its NOT really love but synthetic? Its ok as long as it feels like love. Whats the difference if it performs just the same eh?
A good ,no great actress will work for me. Just make me think you love me honey bunny ! That will work just fine.
(and if not, im a gettin a nother actress)
p.p.s. She doesnt get mad at me if i dont give her the full money supply for the next week. She scrimps (and borrows from her sister). Iv already made that assessment about her character. You think im just blindly giving money away> >> ? HA, you do not know Scrooge McTommy do you?
I have scrutinized her spendings and watch it like a HAWK looking at a field mouse.
She has a daily report emailed to me detailing her EXACT, and i mean EXACT expenditure to the penny. I have the right to comment on anything i find excessive or unnecessary. But remember, I am generous to her. I do not penalize her in anyway.
I want her to have a nice lifestyle in JkT before she can come here. I encourage her to go to malls and eat whatever she likes and hang out with some of her best buds (two sisters from a wealthy JKT family). Shes able to keep up with them and im happy about that.
Shes going to Bali wiht them next month, and IM happy bout that.
Thats her new year present. sent her to Singapore for her bday.
She can buy whatever toiletries, vitamins and other health items she wants.
And she gets an article of clothing or accessory a month.
All the above do cost me money and its several times what she makes a month, so its not tiny.
but i feel its reasonable for a young lady such as herself and is a reasonable expenditure for her WEEK (and month and year as it may be).
She works hard and studies one nite a week and saturday afternoons (after working from 8am to 1pm) and Sunday mornings from 8am to noon.
Shes a hard worker and I am pleased with her and want her to have the support she needs and the things she deserves !
Shes earned them, in my eyes.