car is in my name, she is driving it, she has always been driving it, the car was intended for her, from the beginning. it was meant to be her car. Its indefensible .
its like the Brits handed back HK although the island of HK itself was ceded in perpetuity to Great Britain. the position is indefensible because Kowloon and the New Territories was still part of China and China called the shots, they could shut off the fresh water and HK would die. HK was indefensible. the TT is like that in a microsopic way but equally indefensible.
well i guess you are lucky in the unluckiness?
Institute your own national security law
Iâm kidding. go your own way.
they call me Mister Super Lucky
well seems you may not know exactly HOW lucky you are then.
she wouldnât take an audi if i handed it to her
a keeper
iâll miss her
see what im hoping is that she will want to get hitched to her new man. Then its not going to be talk about alimony and terms of our divorce, she will want to end it all quickly so she can remarry. This is the time I can get off easy. I may be even able to secure the car back. Depends how eager she is to remarry. so thats my Gold Card. I am hoping and waiting for.
dam thats kinda ruff, but look back up to the guy who said if your girl is with a new man, just look at it like shes an"old toy" and you should âdonateâ old toys to the poor guys, could make you feel better.
seems you may be more unpalatable than tommy eh? j/k
she would agree.
takes two though
thats just it, it didnt really impress me. I thought it was not that much more power then my 100hp prius C. which surprised me and i didnt really like the getting in and out of the drivers seat, felt a bit hard to do sorta like the TT. So over all pretty car, i do dig that but not ready to spend money to get into one. And if i wanted a new car now, id be more likely to get a VW Gti. which is kinda similar priced.
well my two ex wives can get together and write a whole series on all my maladies and what nots no doubt.
youâre not a BMW guy?
wellll⌠now that you mentioned it, i really really would NOT mind an M2. thast what i would want an M2. but its substantially more than a vw gti. You can get a nice gti in leather and all that for round 40k i think? The bimmer is more of a 65k ish car?/ so out of reach. But yeah i want an M2.
but honda is coming out with a new Prelude that really reminds me of my old Acura RSX so that may be something to look into !! its no M2 but it will be vw gti priced.
A divorce attorney has told you this?
attorneys cost money, im trying to not get involved with attorneys.
im doing a waiting game. waiting for her to want to marry her new guy and then voila, its a lot easier. just being patient. everyting will pan out.
lets say nothing happens for three years, well the car will have been paid off and i will likely just let her keep it.
TO my mind, simple as it is, i got the car for her. so ? its her car. why should i demand it back? A gift given is a gift given. What i sholda done had i known is NOT to get it in the first place 
but hey lifes not lived in hindsight. yaâll got your knickers twisted over the audi. I aint that concerned about it. if she relinquishes it, cool if not? I aint gonna fight bout it.
An hour consultation will cost a few hundred bucks. The car is 50k+. Get lawyered up immediately.
you know my philosophy , again it only applies to me, is that i think of the big picture.
this young lady was my wife for over ten years. What i spent over this time i consider an obligation to have a wife. And i spent it happily. I am not demanding it back. I am not demanding she give the car back when in fact it was bought for her !!! I bought a toyota for her, did i ever intend to demand it back? NO, The Audi is the same. It is her car separated from me or not. however, i am just saying if i knew we would be separated i would perhaps not be as happy to get her this car. The car is over 72 k by the time its paid off, not just 50k
she has not called out her guns so i am not calling out mine. IF we have to get all ugly in court to fight over things other than the car, then i will fight and maybe use the car as a leverage ,although unlikely.
im just using patience to let things all pan out.
good call bad call who knows, its a call im making
action by inaction
Do you have a close friend who you trust to give you honest advice about your situation?