Dinner etiquette - who is wrong?

Has there ever been any situation where someone has stuck their chopsticks in their rice? Why would anybody do that?

Yup, I used to do that when I was younger. I had no idea that was a rude thing to do until people started telling me I shouldn’t do that.

Why? So the chopsticks won’t accidentally roll off the table onto the floor.

I stand corrected. And surprised.

I’ve probably done it at some point (or at least, I remember being told a few times it was impolite, otherwise I guess it wouldn’t have come up). I don’t think I cared much about it being perceived as impolite though. :man_shrugging:

I’ve also never openly criticized Asians about their use of knives and forks, even when it was patently ridiculous, like stabbing a slice of pizza with a fork and moving their head down to table level to slide the pizza into their mouth (China). Live and let live…

He didn’t say if he bought the coffee or not.

Anyways I’m still curious what favor did she do for OP that only took an hour that leads to an expensive Michelin star restaurant date to repay said favor.

He was just trying to be a ā€œbig wheelā€ and instead he came up flat.

Live and learn.

The favor was probably small enough to warrant a coffee at Starbucks.

It’s because when you stick chopsticks into the rice it looks like an offering to the dead (which is usually a bowl of rice). And Chinese people are afraid of anything that has a passing resemblance of death.

If we were in a major city in the US I might agree that there are better steak options, but in Taiwan where people generally don’t know how to do steak, I’ve not found anything better than major American chains like Ruth’s Chris and Lawry’s.

And yeah, they’re out of my regular budget, too. It’s a once or twice a year kind of thing for me, which is why there are apparently still places like Danny’s that I haven’t tried. It’s hard to justify the risk in that price range when there are dependable standbyes.

It might have been only a few minutes actually

Yes JUST coffee
,anything else you are on your own

Well I’ve only been there three times so far and all on someone else’s dime but even so I didn’t like the steaks even if I didn’t pay And that is saying something I think

I don’t see what the fuss is about for sure

We are all aware of this.

I did on my first day in Taiwan.
Same reason as @keoni said. I didn’t want it to roll of onto the floor nor I wanted to place it on the dirty table.
I got dirty look from an A-ma and a lesson from a friend.

I wouldn’t call it a ā€œfuss.ā€ I’d just call it a good-quality properly cooked steak, like you’d expect to get at a steakhouse in the US. They are really hard to find here, in my experience.

I’m in California and I meant the fuss compared to
other steak houses here also in California

It is not better not worse but not better doesn’t live up to the hype

This is a forum dedicated to Taiwan, and we were discussing restaurants in Taiwan. Compared to the other options here, trust me, it’s good. I agree that in the US it would just be another decent steakhouse. I’ve never eaten at one in the US and am not sure why I would. I didn’t realize it was ā€œhypedā€ in California. Seems odd for such a massive chain.

Yeah it’s got a good following among the people I know
Small sample though
We have one in Walnut Creek and the one in SF closed due to the virus

A lot of restaurants big and small good and bad went under

As for Taiwan I’ve always liked the steaks at a decent teppanyaki

I’m not sure it’s still there and I forgot the name but there was some ozzzie style place where they put a hot stone in front of you and a raw
Steak and you cook it yourself

I liked the fact the steak came first then the bread ,salad and soup and then desert and coffee
It was in tienmu

I’m sorry to hear the one in downtown SFO closed. That was the last time I went to one and it was exactly what I needed. I had flown in for the funeral of a childhood friend and spent the afternoon with my friend’s family in Oakland. It was a grim day. Another close friend who had flown in from the east coast and I decided to toast our buddy that night and we made our way to Ruth’s Chris for no particular reason. I don’t remember the food exactly given other things on our minds, but we were well satisfied.

I post about Ruth’s Chris over here

While I have no beef (har!) with Ruth’s Chris in Taipei, I find going to Le Blanc much easier to reach. The steaks are not prepared the same way but I can expect a hearty meal in both

For birthdays, I’ve taken my kid to Morton’s - another fine steak in my opinion that is also really easy to reach by MRT

Morton’s is what I meant to say earlier when I said Lawry’s. Ruth’s Chris and Morton’s are my standbys here when I want a good steak and don’t mind paying for it.

It’s not really.